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29 and understanding life is not a dream

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I begun this blog with the focus on it being on food and love. However we can not talk about love without heartache...and food without heartburn. (*cues the drummer*) So, I just turned 29. I am a woman on the curve of a new adventure, 30s. I thought by now, I would be able to whip up my Granny's pies and cake recipes without looking at the index card. I thought I would be married and living on the coast of Capri with my 2 children. I thought I would have my stuff together. That is not the case, I am a 29 year old woman navigating some extreme life choices and challenges. I choose to be poly but I was diagnose schizoaffective disorder. This affected my relationships significantly, two of my partnerships ended hence why I haven't posted a lot about food lately. I slipped into a bit of a funk. My creative juices have been halted by this funk, but HEY, I am writing now... that is a start. I am slowly understanding that life doesn't go as you plan. I always been such a

Soul Food

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Everyone has their own twist on Soul Food. I have been craving some of my grandmothers' cooking but they have been pushing me to cook my own. *Laugh out Aloud* Below are some photos of the meals I have been cooking up since I begin this blog series. Shout out to all my love ones for being taste testers. :)

New Year, NEW NEW NEW YOU!

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My New Year Resolutions are: I want to continue the journey of... self care self love love for others transparency owning my womanhood dancing more making lots of memories being open about being poly being open about experienced a mental illness losing 10 pounds thru water aerobics understanding the power in FORGIVENESS overcoming anger making some art and hosting some shows learning how to rest traveling with my boos loving on all my boos growing my locs playing more records going to more concerts learning the art of dancing creating 100 bookmarks for a show creating a bookmark print for my friend for her curtains slowing building my businesses learn about homes and rentals take a build class and ask  Amanda Brewington  for support go to the coffeehouse and bookstore more often walks with my boos yoga with my boos giving up sugar and fast foods completely standing in my truth # 29movingtowards30 Ase'  <3

Introduction to T.C. aka Top Cat

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I love nicknames. T.C. always has a new one for me.  I call him many as well. However, his childhood nickname is Top Cat like the  American  animated television series  made by the  Hanna-Barbera  studios that first ran from September 27, 1961 to April 18, 1962 for a run of 30 episodes on the  ABC  network. Mine is Preecy, a shortening of my government name.  This man makes me smile with all the endearing love names.  Hmmph!  Sparkle Onward,  Caprice aka Ziah 

Introduction to N

"You don't have anyone to love onto you tonight?" , said N. "No, I scare Michigan men.", replies Caprice (Ziah) "You are lovely." Ziah blushes... "You know some people don't know what to do with a strong personality, I do. Muah. I am tired babe, goodnight", N expresses to Ziah. "Muah, goodnight.", wooes Ziah What he doesn't know is I waited a year to approached him... again. We met a year ago online. I was so flabbergasted that he added and LIKED my photos. I deleted him. (Silly, gal!)  I always was fond of his looks. He is SO handsome. He words makes me MELT. *AHEM, yassssssssssss gawd!* I am thankful for all the love I am receiving. Happy Kwanzaa! I am loving ALL my gifts.

Why I Started Writing Online Again... after a long hiatus.

I went to the Cincinnati's Creative and Performing Arts High School. (Yes, the one from that once popular cable network reality show! I graduated a year prior to the show though, damnit!) Writing has always been a outlet and creative tool for myself. While I was in the hospital I had a conversation with a man (another patient) about my love for food and being black and polyamorous. He suggested that I start a blog called "Many Foods, Many Loves"... I was SO inspired I wrote it in my journal immediately in the hospital. This morning I am gifting myself on Christmas Eve, the Winter Solstice/Christmas gift of being free in my lifestyle choices. The name of the blog is called She Got Plenty inspired by the song Plenty by Guru & Erykah Badu. Check it out! I just have so much to share that my journals can not be the only ones to bear witness. I hope this will be a nourishing and loving journey together. Growing Transparently, Caprice aka Ziah